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Strap On Toys: What Is It? What Do I Do About It?

Jul 11, 2018 | Blog, Sex Toys

Need a little bit of excitement in bed? Tired of the same old, boring routine you and your partner do every time?  How about introducing a brand new aspect to spice your sex lives? If you are interested in trying new things with your partner, then try to consider the use of strap ons when having sex with your partner. Here are some things, facts, and information, you should know before trying out this controversial sex toy.

 

 

Strap Ons, What is it?

 

A strap on is an artificial phallic appendage, or a dildo, that typically comes with a harness in order for the user to wear it on the hip easily. It is designed to emulate the similar position as the male penis. In other terms, strap ons are sex toys that you can wear to resemble an actual penis. People think that a strap on is only applicable to lesbian couples since it allows them to have the feeling of penetrative sex and its many pleasures. But actually, straight couples (male and female) and even gay partners use this sex toy to experience something new during sex. Men with erectile dysfunction are also users of this sex toy.

 

Now What Do I Do About It?

 

Now that you know what a strap on is, how do you introduce them to your partner? What you should know is that strap ons – or any other sex toy in that matter, is not a substitute for actual sex. It’s only there for added pleasure and excitement. Don’t try and surprise your partner by whipping out a strap on toy while having sex. Be mindful that your partner might not like the idea directly and may need a bit of conversing before he or she agrees. Unless, you are sure that your partner will have a positive response towards it, don’t try to ask it on a normal conversation. Try talking about it on a candlelit bath, when you’re cuddling, or any intimate conversation. Also, don’t pressure her and let her know that it’s okay if he or she decides not to do it.

Sex toys are not essentially important in a couple’s sex life. However, trying new things helps strengthen the couple’s bond together by experiencing new things together. Just remember that consent is sexy and it is never wrong to ask about it.

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